What do you do when you miss someone?

It took me three years to get over my ex. I was heart broken when we split up and I can honestly say it took years for the scares to heal. I'm still single but am happy with myself and am looking forward to a great future. I've started a business and have a great job so am really busy which helps loads. Try to avoid all the going out and getting drunk, messing about with other guys because non of that works. You have to make a decision to do something and focus on achieving that goal. If you have no personal goals you'll feel like theirs a big void in your life. Im trying to be as honest with you as I can, and drawing on my own experiences, when I decided to take life by the horns everything inside started to change for the better. Things will not change over nite, you have to take baby steps but like I said also have a goal to keep you busy which will also build up your self worth. Sorry this seems rushed Im tired and have got lots to do. Good luck and hope it works out for you, you sound really sweet.